1.0The Blog on alanarnette.comhttps://www.alanarnette.com/blogrich600338<blockquote class="wp-embedded-content" data-secret="nCvsm3adhJ"><a href="https://www.alanarnette.com/blog/2012/12/20/the-christmas-i-lost-my-mom/">The Christmas I lost my Mom</a></blockquote><iframe sandbox="allow-scripts" security="restricted" src="https://www.alanarnette.com/blog/2012/12/20/the-christmas-i-lost-my-mom/embed/#?secret=nCvsm3adhJ" width="600" height="338" title="“The Christmas I lost my Mom” — The Blog on alanarnette.com" data-secret="nCvsm3adhJ" frameborder="0" marginwidth="0" marginheight="0" scrolling="no" class="wp-embedded-content"></iframe><script> /*! This file is auto-generated */ !function(d,l){"use strict";l.querySelector&&d.addEventListener&&"undefined"!=typeof URL&&(d.wp=d.wp||{},d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage||(d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage=function(e){var t=e.data;if((t||t.secret||t.message||t.value)&&!/[^a-zA-Z0-9]/.test(t.secret)){for(var s,r,n,a=l.querySelectorAll('iframe[data-secret="'+t.secret+'"]'),o=l.querySelectorAll('blockquote[data-secret="'+t.secret+'"]'),c=new RegExp("^https?:$","i"),i=0;i<o.length;i++)o[i].style.display="none";for(i=0;i<a.length;i++)s=a[i],e.source===s.contentWindow&&(s.removeAttribute("style"),"height"===t.message?(1e3<(r=parseInt(t.value,10))?r=1e3:~~r<200&&(r=200),s.height=r):"link"===t.message&&(r=new URL(s.getAttribute("src")),n=new URL(t.value),c.test(n.protocol))&&n.host===r.host&&l.activeElement===s&&(d.top.location.href=t.value))}},d.addEventListener("message",d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage,!1),l.addEventListener("DOMContentLoaded",function(){for(var e,t,s=l.querySelectorAll("iframe.wp-embedded-content"),r=0;r<s.length;r++)(t=(e=s[r]).getAttribute("data-secret"))||(t=Math.random().toString(36).substring(2,12),e.src+="#?secret="+t,e.setAttribute("data-secret",t)),e.contentWindow.postMessage({message:"ready",secret:t},"*")},!1)))}(window,document); //# sourceURL=https://www.alanarnette.com/blog/wp-includes/js/wp-embed.min.js </script> In hindsight my mom had gone through the early and mid stages of dementia, probably Alzheimer's, for as many as 10 years without us understanding what was really happening. It had sneaked up on us.https://www.alanarnette.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2012/12/Ida-Arnette.jpg11