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For many climbers, medical people, they will be leaving their homes and families for Everest in less than a month. This can be the culmination to a difficult, trying and, for some, a very exciting time in their lives.<\/p>\nFor many climbers, medical people, they will be leaving their homes and families for Everest in less than a month. This can be the culmination to a difficult, trying and, for some, a very exciting time in their lives.<\/p>\n
A fictional essay:<\/p>\n
The kids are in bed, the house is quiet; now is the time.<\/p>\n
\u201cHoney, I want to talk to you\u201d, she said in a soft voice. \u201cSure, let\u2019s sit on the couch\u201d, he responded expecting a discussion about one of their children\u2019s schoolwork.<\/p>\n
Holding his hand, she looked in his eyes and said, \u201cI want to climb Everest\u201d.<\/p>\n
He fought to hold onto his emotions. He knew of her love of mountains before they were married. She had climbed Rainier in her early twenties, Aconcagua in her thirties and then Denali. She was good. She was safe. She was a natural. But Everest, the highest? Everest, where people die every year? He fought to hold on.<\/p>\n
She squeezed his hand gently yet firmly. \u201cYou know I\u2019ve always dreamed of this. The kids are in a good place. We are in a good place.\u201d We have the money, I have the time off work \u2026\u201d He interrupted, \u201cYou have already talked to your boss?\u201d he said defensively. \u201cNo, not yet but I know I can get it. I wanted to talk to you first – before anyone else.\u201d<\/p>\n
He relaxed. She smiled.<\/p>\n
That night they crawled into bed, a king-size bed – he flops around a lot. They had their usual hug and goodnight kiss before rolling on their sides, facing away from one another. As she laid with her eyes wide open, she felt him move closer. \u201cYes. Yes, I will support you in your dream.\u201d<\/p>\n
She didn\u2019t need his permission. She needed his support.<\/p>\n
The next year was a whirlwind. She trained like there was no tomorrow. He picked up the kids from school as she ran laps up the local hill. As he rolled over at 4 a.m. when the alarm went off, she went for her morning run.<\/p>\n
She gave him a loving peck as she came back from her workout with her trainer after work. He cooked the endless chicken breasts, fueling her for the next workout. He agreed, reluctantly, to remove their beloved wine collection to support her training. This was about them, not him, not her.<\/p>\n
Each night, they both went to sleep committed yet still uncertain about their bargain.<\/p>\n
That Christmas, around the table, she lifted a glass of wine, an exception, for a toast. She looked across the table at him. She looked at her children. She paused as she took a deep breath.<\/p>\n
\u201cKids, I want to tell you something.\u201d<\/p>\n
The duffel bags took up most of the room in the minivan. He drove as she carried on the normal conversation with the kids. They had seen their mom leave before on many business trips.<\/p>\n
\u201cOK, you guys behave while I\u2019m gone. OK? I want you to be good for your dad. OK? I will call as much as I can but remember what I told you about satellite phones. Remember?\u201d<\/p>\n
Tears welled up as she quickly looked away, avoiding eye contact. She squeezed her husband\u2019s hand. He squeezed back.<\/p>\n
The night before, they talked – they talked like they had never have talked. The tears came and flowed freely. No pretense, no tough guy, no tough gal. Real people, real emotions. Brutal honesty. \u201cHoney, if something happens\u2026\u201d He stopped her. \u201cNothing will happen. I am sure of that.\u201d Yes, but if something does …\u201d, her voice trailed off.<\/p>\n
She was very thorough, she had signed all the forms, all the legal papers, every contingency was covered. Every base was covered \u2026 except for the unexpected.<\/p>\n
The hugs at the airport were long. The parking police came over but unexpectedly left as they witnessed the scene. Her children looked at her. \u201cI love you, mom.\u201d \u201cI love you too sweetie. Mommy will be home soon. You be good like we talked about. OK?\u201d She broke the hugs knowing that she could never really let go.<\/p>\n
With the kids back in the minivan, he looked deeply into his wife\u2019s eyes, her soul, her essence; she looked back. The embrace was long, it was strong, it was full of love.<\/p>\n
Nothing was left unsaid.<\/p>\n
Climb On!
\nAlan
\nMemories are Everything<\/p>\n
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